Psychology says the single biggest predictor of who you’ll fall in love with isn’t shared values or chemistry — it’s proximity, plain nearness, because we grow fond of whoever we simply keep seeing
I used to think my restaurants ran on food. They ran on rosters. Put two people on the same closing shift for three weeks and something would happen between them with a reliability I could have sold tickets to. Nobody announced it. They just kept ending up in the same eight square metres at one […]








