Picture next week and notice which way it runs, left to right, or toward you, or away, because whichever answer you just got, there are people who grew up finding a completely different one every bit as obvious as yours

I went for a walk and somewhere along the way I started running as fast as I could. It took me a while to realize my body had been asking me to do that for years

I flew to Málaga to give my nervous system a break, and it repaid me with an airport delay, an evacuation, a heatwave and an unplanned hike — the only thing that actually got reset was my expectations

Nobody tells you that home has an expiration date — one day you wake up in the same rooms you’ve lived in for years, and it doesn’t feel like home anymore, just a place you’re visiting

You only get three or four real connections in an entire life, and there’s a real chance you’ve already met all of them without noticing

Community life is routinely declared dead, but in the pockets where it survives, it turns out to ask for almost nothing — just people willing to keep showing up

We can describe exactly who we used to be. We still don’t have the words for who we are now.

What you keep telling yourself may quietly become the way your body learns to feel

I spent years trying to become more self-aware. Nobody warned me that sometimes insight just gives your loneliness better vocabulary

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