There’s a certain power in independence, especially when it comes to love and relationships.
I’m talking about those women who don’t need a significant other to feel complete. They’re not defined by their relationship status, but rather by their own goals, ambitions, and self-worth.
These women have a unique set of behaviors, seven of which we’ll delve into in this article. And trust me, recognizing these can shift your perspective on independence and relationships.
It’s not about being alone—it’s about being full on your own. So, let’s get right into it, shall we?
1) They prioritize self-care
Let’s get real here.
Women who are independent and don’t need a relationship to feel complete, they have one thing in common—they prioritize self-care.
It’s not about indulging in a bubble bath every evening or scheduling weekly spa appointments (though it could be). It’s about taking care of their physical, mental, and emotional health, recognizing that they can’t pour from an empty cup.
They make sure they’re eating right, getting enough sleep, and squeezing in that workout. They take time out for hobbies and passions that fuel their soul. They understand that their well-being is paramount, and they’re not afraid to put themselves first.
It’s a simple concept, really. But it’s a powerful one. Because when you take care of yourself first, you’re better equipped to handle whatever life throws at you—relationship or not.
2) They embrace solitude
Here’s something that might surprise you.
Independent women, the ones who don’t hinge their completeness on a relationship, they don’t just tolerate being alone—they actually embrace it.
Now, don’t get me wrong. This doesn’t mean they shun social interactions or live as recluses. Far from it. But they’ve learned to fully appreciate their own company and the value of solitude.
They use this time for self-reflection, introspection, and personal growth. They’re not afraid of silence, they find comfort in it. They see solitude as an opportunity to recharge, to connect deeper with themselves.
It’s interesting, isn’t it? While many fear being alone, these women cherish their alone time. Because they know that being alone doesn’t equate to loneliness—it’s simply a state of being that can bring immense peace and clarity.
3) They value their independence
This one’s a given, right?
Independent women, by definition, value their freedom and autonomy. But it goes deeper than just doing what they want when they want. It’s about the ability to stand on their own two feet, make their own decisions, and live life on their own terms.
They understand that being in a relationship is not a necessity but a choice. And while companionship can be wonderful, it should never compromise their sense of self or independence.
I delve deeper into this concept in my book Breaking The Attachment: How To Overcome Codependency in Your Relationship. It’s about understanding that healthy relationships are built on interdependence, not codependence.
Remember, it’s not selfish to value your independence. In fact, it’s empowering. And these independent women, they’re the embodiment of that empowerment.
4) They set personal boundaries
Let’s talk about boundaries.
Independent women who don’t need a relationship to feel complete are excellent at setting personal boundaries. They understand their limits and aren’t afraid to communicate them.
I’ve learned this from personal experience—setting boundaries isn’t about being difficult or unapproachable. It’s about self-respect. It’s about making clear what is acceptable and what is not.
They’re not just setting boundaries with others, but also with themselves. They know when to say no, when to step back, when to take a break. They understand the importance of maintaining balance in their lives.
As the great Maya Angelou once said, “Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option.” These women live by this wisdom—they respect themselves enough to demand respect from others, too.
5) They chase their dreams
Let me share something with you.
The independent women I admire, the ones who don’t need a relationship to feel complete, they’re dream chasers. They have aspirations, goals, dreams. And they’re not waiting for anyone’s approval or support to chase them.
They’re not afraid of failure or setbacks. Instead, these challenges fuel their determination and resilience. They understand that the journey towards their dreams is as important as the destination itself.
From my own journey, I can tell you that it’s an exhilarating feeling—to have a dream and to pursue it relentlessly. And these women, they live this thrill every single day. They don’t need a relationship to add meaning or purpose to their lives—they find it in the pursuit of their passions.
6) They embrace change
Here’s something I’ve noticed over the years.
Independent women, the ones who don’t need a relationship to feel complete, they’re not just open to change, they embrace it. They understand that life is a series of changes, and resisting them only leads to stress and stagnation.
They see change as an opportunity for growth, a chance to learn new things and experience different perspectives. They’re always ready to adapt and evolve.
As Charles Darwin said, “It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent; it is the one most adaptable to change.” These women truly embody this spirit of adaptability.
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7) They’re not afraid of being single
Alright, let’s talk about the elephant in the room.
These independent women? The ones who don’t need a relationship to feel complete? They’re not scared of being single. In fact, they embrace it.
They don’t see singleness as a curse or something to be ashamed of. Quite the opposite. They see it as a time to focus on themselves, to grow as individuals, and to enjoy their own company.
They understand that being single doesn’t mean they’re lonely or unlovable—it simply means they’re not willing to settle for anything less than they deserve.
The raw truth is, these women would rather be single and happy than in a relationship where they’re not valued. Because they know their worth, and they’re not afraid to wait for someone who sees it, too.
Strong, single, and loving it: Empowered women embrace independence
As we conclude this exploration of independent women and their unique behaviors, it’s important to reflect on why we embarked on this journey in the first place.
The ultimate goal isn’t about labeling or creating a checklist of traits to aspire to. Rather, it’s about celebrating the diversity of women’s experiences and perspectives. It’s about recognizing that finding completeness within ourselves, rather than in a relationship, is a strength to be admired.
It’s a raw yet empowering truth: We don’t need a relationship to feel complete. We find completeness within ourselves—through self-care, embracing solitude, valuing independence, setting boundaries, chasing dreams, embracing change, and not fearing singleness.
In the words of the legendary Maya Angelou, “You alone are enough. You have nothing to prove to anybody.”
To delve deeper into these concepts, I recommend this video by Justin Brown:
In this deeply personal video, Justin dives into the heart of what it means to commit to being single not as a permanent state, but as a meaningful phase of growth and self-discovery. It resonates closely with what we’ve discussed in this article and I believe it would provide further insights into our discussion.
Remember, embracing independence doesn’t mean shunning relationships—it means understanding that you are enough on your own. And that’s a powerful realization.
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