10 things in life only introverts can relate to, according to psychology

Introverts are often pretty fascinating folks with their own unique quirks. They’ve got this deep, imaginative side that leads to all sorts of interesting thoughts and ideas. 

They’re passionate about their hobbies and interests, even if they’re a bit unconventional.

Plus, they’re really good at noticing little details that others might miss, and they’ve usually got a pretty witty sense of humor to boot. 

But what makes them really cool, though, is that they’re totally authentic – they’re not afraid to be themselves, quirks and all. 

So, if you’re an introvert just like me, there are some things in life you can relate to. From the “Irish Goodbye” to loving it when the people you were supposed to meet cancel at the last minute, these are the things we silently enjoy. 

So, let’s expand on these two things and a few others. 

1) Slipping out quietly

Picture this – you’re at a party, having a good time, but suddenly you feel like leaving. Instead of making a big deal about it, introverts prefer to slip away unnoticed. 

It’s the so-called “Irish Goodbye” or “French Exit,” and some people love it, while others hate it and find it rude and disrespectful toward the hosts.

But you know what, it’s not about being rude. We introverts simply want to avoid the fuss of long goodbyes and strive to make a smooth exit.

On the other hand, if you’re out with friends, they might be worried about your disappearance as you just disappear. And that’s not ideal, is it? 

That’s why I simply text one friend or send a message in a group chat that I’ve gone home, and that’s it. A simple solution. 

And if I’m slipping away from a party where I’m tight with the hosts, I call or text them the next day and tell them how much fun I had but that I had to go home, unfortunately. 

2) The joy of canceled plans

You know that feeling when plans get canceled at the last minute? While some feel disappointed or even angry, introverts often see it as a silver lining. 

It’s like unexpectedly getting a free pass to relax and unwind without the pressure of socializing.

I’d be lying if I said that’s not me. Sure, I love going out and socializing, but sometimes, I just pray to God that they cancel so I can stay at home and relax. 

I know this could sound weird to others, but introverts definitely get me. The idea of having an unexpected chunk of time to myself is like hitting the jackpot. 

And then, there’s this:

3) Library as a sanctuary

Ah, the smell of old books. I love it. Row after row of books I haven’t read yet fills me with joy, and it’s one of the reasons I feel happy to be alive. 

People who don’t like reading books don’t get this thrill, but I know you do, even if you haven’t read something in a while. 

I think of the library as an introvert’s paradise. It’s not just about books (though we love those too!). 

Libraries also offer introverts a peaceful escape from the noise and chaos of the outside world. 

It’s a quiet sanctuary where you can lose yourself in the world of literature or study without distractions.

4) Taking the backseat 

Have you noticed introverts often choose seats at the back during meetings or classes? It’s not a coincidence. 

They prefer to keep some distance from the spotlight and avoid unnecessary interactions. 

Sitting at the back gives them a sense of privacy while still allowing them to participate in the discussion.

Again, I’d be lying if I said that I’ve never done it. In fact, I always scan the room to see if there are any seats in the back available, as I don’t like sitting in front of any classes, meetings, etc. 

By taking the backseat, introverts can easily observe and absorb the dynamics of the situation without feeling pressured to actively participate in every conversation or activity. 

This positioning allows them to maintain a sense of personal space and control over their level of engagement, encouraging a more relaxed and enjoyable social experience for them.

5) Online hangouts

Virtual meetups have become a game-changer for introverts. Unlike in-person meetings, online hangouts give you the flexibility to socialize from the comfort of your own home, right? 

You can control the level of interaction and take breaks whenever you need some alone time.

And work from home is the same, too. You don’t need to dress up, go to the office, do small talk with people around you, and so on. 

I know I’d be devastated if I had to go work in an office ever again. The level of comfort I have right now is simply unparalleled. 

I mean, I can kick off my slippers and put my feet up on the table when I wish. I also have a walking treadmill I use for hours at a time, getting my steps in while I’m working. 

Here’s another thing I appreciate and I’m sure you can relate to:

6) Texting 

Introverts play it cool with texting. We prefer meaningful convos over quick exchanges, taking time to respond thoughtfully. Not always, of course, but plenty of times, for sure.

Unlike phone calls or in-person conversations, where the pressure is on to respond quickly and smoothly, there’s no stress of responding on the spot when you’re texting. 

You get a few moments to think about what you’re about to say, and that’s just perfect, isn’t it?

Plus, it’s a great way to have meaningful conversations without feeling overwhelmed by the energy of a crowded room or the expectations of social norms. 

7) Silent companionship

Ever been with someone and felt perfectly comfortable in silence? That’s the magic of silent companionship, and I absolutely love it. 

I enjoy spending time with close friends or my wife, where conversations flow naturally, but silence is also appreciated.

It’s those moments when you’re with someone you care about, and you don’t feel the need to fill the air with chatter. 

Instead, you both just exist together, comfortable in each other’s presence, sharing the same space without saying a word. 

It’s a beautiful kind of intimacy where you don’t need words to connect. Your mere presence is enough. 

Whether you’re reading side by side, people-watching, taking a stroll together, or simply enjoying a quiet moment at home, there’s something incredibly soothing about being in sync with someone in that way.

8) People watching

Talking about people-watching, do you ever find yourself people-watching? Introverts do it often. 

Whether in a park or at a café, it’s their way of understanding human behavior without diving into conversations.

I mean, I’m not doing it to be nosy or judgmental. It’s just a relaxing thing to do. If you have someone who’ll do it with you, even better. 

As long as they don’t start yapping and making it stressful for no reason.

9) Solo adventures

While group trips can be fun, there’s something uniquely liberating about setting off on your own path with no one else to consider but yourself. 

Hiking through rugged landscapes, wandering through quaint streets, or simply sitting in quiet contemplation by a serene lake it’s a time for self-discovery and introspection.

Going solo means I can fully immerse myself in the experience, embracing every moment of solitude and freedom along the way.

There’s no one to rush me, tell me we need to go see something or get stressed about missing a flight or something. 

I have my own pace, and I’m organized enough not to stress about things I might miss. If I don’t see another tourist trap you “absolutely have to see,” then fine. Even better.  

And lastly, here’s my all-time favorite place to be. Well, except at home, of course. 

10) The appeal of cozy cafés

Picture this: you walk into a café, the aroma of freshly brewed coffee enveloping you like a warm hug. 

You find a comfy corner, maybe by the window or tucked away in a cozy nook, and settle in with your favorite book, journal, or laptop. 

It’s a space where time seems to slow down, where you can sip your drink at your own pace and get lost in your thoughts without feeling rushed or judged. 

Cafés aren’t just for coffee for us. Just like libraries, they’re introverts’ sanctuaries. Here, we can sip, read, write, or simply watch the world go by without feeling pressured to chat.