If someone uses these 10 phrases, they have a hidden sense of entitlement

Ever bumped into people who act like the world owes them something? They’re not always easy to spot. Sometimes, they hide their ‘me-first’ attitude behind simple words and phrases. And before you know it, you’re left feeling annoyed or even put down.

Why do some chats leave you feeling low? It might be because the person you’re talking to feels more important than others. But don’t worry – we’re here to help you spot these people early on!

We’ve got a list of 10 phrases that can be warning signs. So, grab a snack, make yourself comfortable, and let’s learn how to crack the code language of self-importance…

1) “I deserve this”

Whenever you hear someone say “I deserve this,” especially in situations where they haven’t put in any effort or work, you should be on alert. This phrase is a classic sign of entitlement.

It’s one thing to acknowledge your hard work and feel deserving of the fruits of your labor. However, if someone continually feels they are owed something for no apparent reason, this reflects an underlying sense of entitlement.

So next time when someone says “I deserve this” without any justification, remember it’s not about your perception – it’s a sign of their hidden entitlement.

2) “That’s not my job”

We’ve all probably come across this phrase at some point in our lives. While it’s okay to set boundaries and not take on work that falls outside of your responsibilities, the phrase “That’s not my job” can sometimes reflect a sense of entitlement.

It’s all about the context and tone. If it’s said dismissively or frequently, it could be a sign of someone refusing to cooperate or help out simply because they believe they’re above certain tasks.

3) “Do you know who I am?”

This phrase is a classic indicator of entitlement. It’s as if the person is implying that their status or identity should exempt them from certain experiences or grant them special privileges.

Here’s an interesting fact: according to research, individuals with wealth or power are more likely to behave unethically than individuals who are less privileged. This includes behaviours like lying, cheating, or even breaking the law.

So when someone drops the “Do you know who I am?” card, remember this fact – it’s a pretty clear sign of a hidden sense of entitlement.

4) “Rules don’t apply to me”

Hearing someone say “Rules don’t apply to me” can be disheartening. It’s a phrase that screams entitlement and lack of regard for others.

Here’s something to think about: we all live in a society where rules are made for a reason. They’re there to ensure fairness, safety, and mutual respect. When someone thinks they can bypass these rules just because they want to, it shows a lack of empathy for the community they’re part of.

5) “I want it now”

This phrase is quite common and it often indicates impatience. However, when said with certain insistence or frequency, it can be a sign of entitlement.

I remember when I was out shopping with a relative. She found a dress she liked that wasn’t available in her size. Instead of asking politely if there were more in the stockroom or considering another option, she demanded, “I want it now”. She expected the store staff to magically produce the dress she wanted on the spot.

This experience taught me that such phrases can reveal a lot about a person’s sense of entitlement. They might not realize it, but their insistence on instant gratification can make others around them uncomfortable.

6) “I don’t need anyone’s help”

This phrase can be a bit tough to decode. On one hand, it might just mean that someone is independent and likes to handle things on their own. But on the other hand, it can also be a sign of entitlement.

Let’s be real here – everyone needs help at some point. It’s part of being human. But when someone keeps insisting they don’t need anyone’s help, it could mean they think they’re above others.

The thing is, constantly refusing help is a surefire way to show independence, but it can mess with personal growth, strain relationships, and make teamwork a challenge. Not admitting that a little support can be necessary closes doors to learning and connection, you know?

7) “I always get what I want”

This phrase, when said with a certain air of expectation, can be a neon sign of entitlement mentality. When someone truly believes they should always get what they want, it shows they feel superior and deserving of special treatment.

Here’s an interesting fact: according to studies conducted by Harvard and Cornell researchers, people with a high sense of entitlement are more likely to believe they deserve preferences and resources that others don’t. This belief can lead to conflicts and dissatisfaction when their expectations aren’t met.

8) “I don’t do apologies”

This phrase can be a red flag for a hidden sense of entitlement. It suggests that the person doesn’t feel the need to acknowledge their mistakes or make amends.

I once had a coworker who made a significant error on a project we were working on together. When I gently pointed it out, hoping we could fix it together, he retorted, “I don’t do apologies.” It wasn’t about seeking an apology, but his refusal to even acknowledge the issue was a clear display of entitlement.

9) “That’s just how I am”

Let’s cut to the chase: no one has the right to disrespect or hurt others just because “that’s how they are”. This phrase is often a cop-out, a way for someone to avoid taking responsibility for their actions.

If someone uses this phrase as an excuse for their behavior, especially when that behavior hurts or disrespects others, it’s a sign of entitlement. It’s as if they’re saying, “I can act however I want and you just have to deal with it.”

10) “You should know your place”

This one is tough to swallow. When someone says “you should know your place,” it’s as if they’re placing themselves on a pedestal and looking down on others.

Here’s a reality check: no one is above or beneath anyone else. We’re all human beings deserving of respect and kindness. So when someone tries to put you in what they think is ‘your place’, it’s not about you – it’s about their hidden sense of entitlement showing through.