Lucas Graham

Lucas Graham, based in Auckland, writes about the psychology behind everyday decisions and life choices. His perspective is grounded in the belief that understanding oneself is the key to better decision-making. Lucas’s articles are a mix of personal anecdotes and observations, offering readers relatable and down-to-earth advice.

Lucas Graham

10 signs you’re more wise and mature than you give yourself credit for

Hey there! Ever find yourself being a bit too tough on yourself? Thinking that wisdom and maturity are leagues away? Well, you might be in for a surprise. You’re probably more grown-up and wise than you think. Let’s explore 10 signs that show your hidden wisdom and maturity. Ready? Let’s dive in. 1) You handle …

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If a man is secretly lonely in life, he’ll usually display these 7 subtle behaviors

Our society tends to stigmatize those who express feelings of loneliness, often driving people into silence simply out of fear of societal judgment, rather than openly acknowledging their struggle. In this article, I’ll reveal 7 subtle behaviors that might indicate if a man is secretly lonely in life. By the end, I hope to make …

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People who avoid accountability and seek to blame others usually display these 8 behaviors

We’ve all come across them – people who seem great at first, but when things go wrong, they’re the first to point fingers and the last to own up. Often, it’s a subtle pattern of behavior that leaves you feeling frustrated, questioning your own sanity or even doubting your worth. Here are the 8 telltale …

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8 little-known body language signs that signal low self-worth 

We all know about the obvious stuff, the crossed arms and averted eyes that scream discomfort. But what about the subtle cues, the ones that are whispering instead of shouting? I’ve always been intrigued by these little gestures and what they reveal about our internal state. Specifically, I’ve been looking into signs that suggest low …

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7 warning signs your partner may be having an emotional affair

Have you ever had that nagging feeling? You know the one… where something just doesn’t feel quite right with your partner, but you can’t put your finger on it. Well, let me tell you something. Sometimes, these feelings aren’t just all in your head. They could be subtle indications that your partner may be having …

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People who are emotionally damaged but don’t realize it usually display these 7 behaviors

Life is a journey filled with ups and downs, and while we all have our share of emotional bruises, sometimes the damage runs deeper than we realize. You may go about your life, feeling something is off-kilter, but can’t quite put your finger on what it is. Could it be that you are suffering from …

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6 things confident empaths always do (but never talk about)

Brené Brown has a lot to say in the field of empathy. Perhaps you are familiar with her work—she’s an American researcher and author who is most well-known for her groundbreaking TED Talk, “The Power of Vulnerability,” which currently has 65 million views on YouTube. “Empathy has no script. There is no right way or …

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If someone displays these 9 patterns in relationships, they probably had a turbulent upbringing

There’s a strong link between how we were raised and how we behave in relationships. It’s not a one-size-fits-all rule, but patterns often emerge that hint towards a turbulent upbringing. These patterns aren’t about blaming or shaming anyone, but about understanding why people act the way they do in relationships. In this article, I’m going …

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If you recognize these 10 behaviors, you’re dealing with a deeply self-centered person

Ever had one of those friends who seems to only care about their own world? Someone who barely notices what you’re feeling or needing? Yeah, we’ve all been there. It sounds like you’ve bumped into a self-centered person. Ready to dive in? Let’s get started! You might just recognize someone you know. 1) They always …

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People who pretend to be happy for your success but are jealous underneath usually display these 10 behaviors

Being on the receiving end of envy can be one of the most baffling experiences in life. In a world filled with people who are quick to applaud your success, it can be challenging to identify those who are genuinely happy for you. More often than not, folks may appear ecstatic about your achievements, when …

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